The end

Well, I have to say this was unexpected. I didn't think I'd find myself writing this post, and I didn't think I'd care so little about it when I did.

Yeah, I'm leaving BJP, and I think the reasons should be made known.

The whole thing began just a few days ago. Bloodberry was (basically) calling me an idiot, telling me I didn't know anything. (not in those exact words, mind you) In essence she was looking down on me and treating me like ****.

And so, offended, I reply to one of her posts, asking her to stop and saying that I wanted to talk to her about it.

The next thing I know, I'm demoted and I have a PM in my inbox telling me about how I'm supposedly trying to control BJP or whatever. Nobody asked me about the issue, Cloud and BB just made up their own assumptions and went with it.

Way to go Cloud.

So, I try to set things straight by explaining what it really is and he tells me to stop bothering him.

Yes sir, I'm really impressed with your problem-solving abilities now. I really like how you just do whatever without bothering to hear the whole of an issue.

And I hope you have a great time banning your best members instead of listening to them and working on a solution. Nephilim_X comes to mind, myself, and others.

And, specifically to all the regular users, most of you that I'm friends with can contact me already, and the rest of you should be able to find me.

BMS Edit: Removed extra tags used to circumvent the boards filter of inappropriate language.

 

As I'm sure, you're well aware that this isn't really a nice way to go.

Though to be honest with you, if I was in charge of this Forum. I would have edited and locked this one up soon as I saw it. But thought comes to mind that that's already been done before.

Instead, I've saved a copy of the post in my computer. If the posts shall happen to be edited, feel free to ask for a copy. Not because it's true, at all, but because I'm sure you still want people to know why you left, your reasons.

Nonetheless, you will be missed in this site by a lot of people.

Wreckless post nonetheless, you'll most likely be banned for it though.

-Seishin

 

A quick note about my post, since I'm very keen on editing

Yes, I did say that I would let you know what Rags said in the thread, but considering that, it's not from my point of view. I just don't want people to keep asking like they did Neph, since all you can see is his edited post.

I'm not taking Rags' side, I'm just letting you know what his side is, if need be.

I can assure you that a lot of things he said aren't even true.

You can probably read Ciel's post, it practically sums it up from my point of view. The comment I made is preety much for informational purposes only.

Oh, and thanks for not changing anything Ciel, though if we're all really crazy about curse words, might wanna edit that, since this is apparently a public site, don't know how far you can go.

I don't want an eight year old learning those words, even though probably and sadly they already know them ^^;

-Seishin

 

Umm wow..This is a shock, but I understand. Take care dude, keep it real. We'll miss you!

 

Understand I write this post as both a moderator of boards.jp and a friend of Reisti Skalchaste.

I have to say I'm disappointed with you Reist. I thought you would be better than this. I had a feeling you would leave, and I thought you would leave on a much better note. But I guess I was wrong.

I understand how you felt, but at the same time I felt you were taking things out of context. It wasn't just because of what you said. It also had to do with the way you had been recently. Your last two threads in the mod forum started to worry me, but because I was your friend, I didn't say anything about it. But now that I think it over, I probably should've as I'm sure you would've listened to a worried friend and we probably wouldn't be here right now. I'm sorry for my own shortcomings. However I wonder if I could have even REALLY made a difference? I tried in one thread, and seemingly nothing changed. if anything I may have just 'fanned the fire' when I tried to stomp it out. Understand that this was something not out of the blue...your comments were merely a trigger.

When I first heard of the demodding, I wasn't sure what to think. I agreed with the others completely, but at the same time I felt bad because you are my friend. I figured I would remain neutral and on the fence...

But dude, this....I'm speechless.

Think of it this way, even if you were wrongfully treated, you've just sunk down to that level. Instead of walking away peacefully and being above childish things, you went and did this, which makes you even lower than what you are lashing out against.

I'm sorry, you're my friend and all and I wish to remain friends with you, but you have lost my support on this issue. I am no longer on the fence.

I hope there are no hard feelings between us, and that we may continue to be friends, despite this.

Bye Shin, Rags, Reist....see you around...

edit: btw, do NOT compare yourself to Scott (a.k.a. Neph).

Scott left because of something going against what he believed in, and offending him. His problem was that he ended up making a huge spectacle of it, and turned it into something it should never have become.

I understood why he left completely and utterly and supported him - even tho I did not exactly agree with it. I swore to him and mostly to myself, that if what he was afraid would happen did in fact happen (which i doubt) that boards.jp would see its last of me as well.

He left for a completely different and valid reason. The only thing he has in common with what you've just done is that he left the wrong way. But even Scott's way wasn't as bad as this.

 

Wow, did Neph start a ridiculous trend of ways to leave the boards while disrespecting Mods (in this case Super) and Admins.

Am I sad your leaving. No. I see you leaving as just another neewbie coming through to make their mark on boards (good or bad) and leaving.

go luck to you.

I have no sorrow or respect (not that i had any) for those who post one sided augments, whine, and then up and decide to leave.

Had I thought you were above this, I might feel a little remorse.

As far as I can tell B.JP’s Best members are still here. We don’t do stupid things, that can be avoided, to get banned.

You don't see anyone else around here whineing about Bloodberry's personality. It's done wonders for the board.

 

Wow, I always thought that if you were going to leave, it would have been on a pleasant note. I personally don't think any situation or dispute justifies public bashing, but seeing as I am not a part of this and don't really know what went on, no more of my opinions need to be stated. I will however say that it is always a shame to lose a member in this manner no matter who is at fault.

Take care.

 

I have nothing to say on this matter.

But I did talk to Reisti because I believe we are friends.

I know he wouldn't want to leave ill tastes of himself in your mouths or something like that.

 

I will gladly talk to him on MSN tomorrow. So long as it is a civil converstation, and he understands where I am coming from.

Understand I'm a little wary cause 'I have a lot I want to say to you' sounds like the thing I hear from my parents when I'm in trouble. ._.