Bad Reputation??!

Discussion in 'Blogs' started by Zanza, Mar 7, 2005.

  1. Zanza

    Zanza .Net-ing & PHP-ing~*
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    I know this might sound weird to most of you, but in my cultural environment I might have a bad reputation.. listen to my little story first..

    I love to listen to Megadeth (Hard Rock), and there is no point in low volume while hearing rock, right? But I don't high up the volume so crazy like. This could be one of the reason I might have a bad reputation.

    I have been an ok friend for a year with some girl who has been having a boyfriend, so does most of her family, I guess that's ok with her cultur, but not mine. So, whoever sees me hanging out with her might think that I have a boyfriend as well.. This is a second reason for why I might have a bad reputation..


    My comments.. Hard Rock is a damn good music, I find it the best in the music world rather than these infrasturating arabic-love songs.. if you don't like me listening to cool music go to hell.

    I might hang out with a girl that is ok for her to have a boyfriend, but if you think that I have a boyfriend just because of that, well, I congrat you with your great brains that conclude everything before making sure of anything :)


    I am not talking to anyone specificly.. but I have been thinking why no one asked for my hand yet, everyone around my age is getting married, its not like I want to, but it makes me think, y'know.. *sigh*
     
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  2. Athena

    Athena Wisdom comes with Sadness

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    I understand what you're going through. Two of my best friends are Egyptians *one full and one half* and struggle with maintaing their culture and try to stay away from the boyfriend mess but yea i understand why you would be upset and as far as ppl making judgements.... i'm in the same boat as you. I've recently found out that a few of my closest friends are known not to be virgins... why i didn't know this don't ask... but then ppl started saying that i wasn't one either and that was... well... interesting to say the least seeing how at the time i hadn't even had my first kiss yet so yea... lol if u ever feel like ranting or talking feel free to email, aim, msn, or even just plain pm me. I'd be glad to listen and/or talk. Peace. ~Athena
     
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  3. hey dont sweat it alright when love opens its doors for you then you will know so what its your life and not theres live it how you want to live it. on a side note Hard Rock is one of my favorite music to listen to when i have a bad day..if you need to talk with someone you got me to talk to pm me send me an email or Instant message me i dont care if you want to talk then theres me
     
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  4. Seishin

    Seishin Guest

    Don't worry to much about it. What they were trying to say is, that practically most of the guys are dumba**es, or just not good enough for you. You're a great person Zanzie, i think that you deserve only the best.

    When the person is right, you'll get to live the way you wanna live. For now, just enjoy your life!

    Besides, I for one consider the engagement rings as the "Smallest Handcuffs in the World"! ^o^

    -Seishin
     
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  5. Nephilim_X

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    It's because you hate jews.
     
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