Goodbye...

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  1. Basher

    Basher Mad Writing Skillz

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    I came to realize that I am not ready to say goodbye to my mom. She has cancer. I guess I never wanted to believe that she could leave.

    Right now she is pretty sick. Thankfully not do to the cancer. But she is getting better. Who knows maybe she will conquor this cancer.

    She tells me that she is dying. I tell her she shouldn't say that. I think it is because I don't want to believe it. I guess I was in the stage of deniel. I am going to talk to her to find out more. See what her options are. I don't want to lose my mum. Nothing can replace her.
     
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  2. Yossarian

    Yossarian Yossarian Lives!

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    Looks like we're in the same boat. my mom has been living with it for 6 years now.
     
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  3. Seishin

    Seishin Guest

    You're right, no human life is replacable. Though I say you should cherish these moments most, I'm sure you both would come appreaciate it in the end. And not saying the end as in anyone's going to die, not now at least. But at least when you think about it.

    However, it's apparent that cancer can't be stoped. However, it can be slowed down, though from experience, since my grandfather had it, it's a lot of suffering on the person's part fighting it, so you're going to have to be there for her, and be strong.

    Update us on this, if you want ^^

    -Seishin
     
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  4. wertitis

    wertitis Proud Mary keep on burnin'

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    All I can give you are my words.

    ~Wertitis
     
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