GRRRR....*sigh* what to do

what to do...if i was born a year earlier i could separate from my parents as soon as i turned 18 but no no..i had to be born on the fucken 89...you all are proalby wondering wtf i am talking about...well I am in love with Sora and my parents or mostly my dad who just found out told me its not going to happen..why 1 cause hes a sterotyping bastard 2. he doesn't know wtf he i talking about and 3. HE doesn't know anything he in the fucken blind. He thinks im giong to fuck my life up he says im not going to visit Sora this year well im going to be damned on that. I will find a way...damn it...im just so pissed off...i know that the bible says honour thy father and thy mother and i do but damn it they have to at least give me some honour as well... IM not like every other person looking for sex and drugs and shit like that but no they think they know me..this shit just is ahhhhhh...I feel sorry for anyone as school if they piss me off cause there going to be dead...man...im just going to need to sort this out with God and i know He will help me...but i swear if i don't see my beloved Sora or talk to her then well then heh my parents are in for a RUDE awakening with there sons BAD side... Right.... I just need to keep my cool and pray to God...I know that will help..

later.

 

i hopew everything works out with Sora. shes a wonderful person im sure thatg god will find a way to bring both of you together.

 

i know..i was just extremtly poed at my dad and it will turn out good cause i keep my faith strong and so does she.

 

Hey, take it easy... remember that in these cases, you must show patience. Take it this way: If you can't wait a little circumstance, how will you cope with worse ones? Take this as an opportunity to forge your character and will strength. Also, you can keep chatting with your g/f. I can tell from experience that the "urgent need" to see someone is not always love...

As long as you don't break up, there's not much trouble, is it? In any case, you might need to have a serious "man to man" talk with your father. It seems to me (haven't read all your blog, it's just a first impression) that you don't get along well... you're growing up, you're almost 18, and you need to tell your father that you need the chance to prove that you're maturing and becoming a responsible adult. Also, he knows you're a christian, right? And he also knows christians aren't supposed to have sex before marriage and all that... and Jesus is your top authority, so, what parents are supposed to do is raise you and teach you moral values so you'll be able to perform well on your own, that's what parenting is about. Preparing their children for the future. And restriction is NOT a way to prepare them... at least not when they're about to reach adulthood soon.

So, you need to talk to your father and be sincere (but not angry. Remember, you need to hold your emotions. Passions are to be ridden by you, not viceversa). Let him know you're not a kid anymore, and he should stop treating you like one.

So, if he's afraid you'll mess up, or that you might not be prepared... well, tell him it's an opportunity to know the outside world, and, how can you be prepared if you don't know what's ahead? Trials can be good once in a while.

Your father must accept this, you're growing up - if he doesn't want you to make the same mistakes that he did, well, ask him to tell you his fears. Man to man. Tell him to give you advice, and you'll follow his advise. But advise is different than restriction. Restriction often turns to be counterproductive, because it only accentuates the desire to do what you're restricted to do - right?

So, talk to your father. Man to man. I'm sure he will understand.

Good luck!