marrige in the waking????

my bf sebastian asked me to marry him. i'm only 16. gosh what should i do???? i don't know. i'm at school right now. and Eric is with me. lol, funny boy. what should i do yall? i love yall!! veries much.


~nikki

 

Don't be retarded; you say no. If he loves you he can wait till you and him have more education and a stable financial base.

 

i agree with Neph, Say NO.

 

He wouldn't be able to support you either if both of you married either. Where will you work, unless you have college or university then neither of you will have a decent amount of income to pay for a house, a car, and children for that matter.

I don't mean to sound mean, because you two might really like, or even love each other. But, you have to take into account how your future will be affected if you make a decision like that.

 

Not to sound like and ass, but at 16 neither of you really know much about anything. Wait on it. Stay with him and keep going out. Let time tell you what you really need to know. If you're hesitant enough to ask us what you think, that should raise a flag telling you to hold off. Once you two are through college both of you will know so much about one another that if you haven't fallen out of love by then, then you'll know for sure that you two were meant for one another.

Always better a broken engagement than a broken marrage. Be smart. Saying no doesn't mean you don't love him enough. It just means that you are wise enough to prevent yourself from jumping into something as life altering as marrage.

Love is fickle in High School.

~W

 

I agree. (As an off-topic note, the Catholic Church says that unexpected pregnancy is *NOT* a valid reason for marriage! I guess because it only complicates things more)

Yes, you're still too young. See, to be mature you need to experience more of life (no i don't mean sex lol ), study, get a job, find out what it's like to earn your own money, and then your perspective will change.

In fact, most of the time when someone's in love with you and tells you to marry (at that age), is a sign of TROUBLE! You don't know if he's obsessed with you and wants to be with you because he feels lonely and you've been the only girl who loved him, etc. etc.

Remember: If a decision will have PERMANENT consequences, generally it's the wrong decision.