Obsession....

I've seen this too many times, that I have to speak about it.

"OMG my boy/girlfriend broke up with me" or "I'm in love with this girl and no matter what i tell her she won't go out with me".

What's the cause for our obsessions? We still WANT TO BELIEVE that this person COULD love us.

And that's the source of the pain... i mean, GET REAL! IT *WON'T HAPPEN*! MOVE ON! GET A LIFE!

One person i spoke with... spent TWO YEARS... TWO FREAKING YEARS waiting for a particular girl... who:

a) Dumped him
b) Got out with someone else
c) Was expecting a child from that someone else!

Two years being depressed and wishing... wanting... hoping...waiting...

I'm sick tired of this. Why do you people think that having a girlfriend is going to solve your problems? IT'S NOT! And stop wanting THAT PARTICULAR GIRL YOU'RE OBSESSED WITH, DAMMIT!

This is as ridiculous as the man who got stuck in the desert, because the pond he was drinking from got dry. "Oh, i'll wait, I'm sure that in some time, this pond will have water again". And not looking around and seeing other 20 or 100 ponds available...

Are we humans really that stupid?

 

eh, im not obessed..*sniffles* you hurt me!!

 

right...this doesn't pertain to one person blue it goes to all of us and yea lol i have seen this before to its well..kinda pathtic espically with grown men and women. You can't always expect a relationship to make your life better but can make it worse sometimes being single isn't that bad