Recreation question to all girls

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  1. Roffey

    Roffey I'm As Free As A Bird Now

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    my friend just got dumped. i want to make her feel better but i don't know how. i don't want to buy her something because we aren't like that. what can i say?:confused:
     
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  2. Bloodberry

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    dude, just let her know that you're there for her. to listen and that kinda thing. believe it or not, but that's part of the friend duty list. *^-^*you don't need to buy anything. just let her know you're a friend still.
     
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  3. Mordeth

    Mordeth Mordeth Vult!

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    heh yeah being bought something won't make anyone feel better about being dumped :)
     
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  4. Amarhyllis

    Amarhyllis New Member

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    I know how you feel about consoling someone. **believe me, I suddenly lost all of my people skills**
    Just tell her that everything will be alright, because it really will. Life doesnt' end the moment that person walks away and leaves them on their own. Just think of it as new opportunities, new people to meet, new relationships to build. Gather all of the sorrow deep down and mold it into a statue that states loudly, "I'm not going to let anyone see me like this, or hurt me ever again." Just be sure that you're always there and let her know that. As long as she has someone to stand beside, she'll be alright. I hope that I have helped you out, Kenshin89 and I hope that everything works out alright with your friend. :)
     
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  5. Roffey

    Roffey I'm As Free As A Bird Now

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    Thank you all for your help. She is feeling better and is almost back to normal
     
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  6. Zero Enna

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    Just tell her that you are there for her and you'll alway be her friend through thick and thin.
     
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  7. Chowmein

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    Listen, comfort, repeat as necessary.

    Kinda like shampoo.......
     
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  8. darkmagiciangrl

    darkmagiciangrl New Member

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    Just say sorry to hear that. Poor grl.It sucks when u get dumped. what she get dumped 4? that happend to a friend of mine,Mickey. She dumped him 4 his best friend, & he ( his friend ) took it. so now i'm trying to hook him up w/ my friend who likes him. they might go to the next dance 2gether.ahhhh,love. i think i'm still waiting
    :shy3: -aha ( Yugi's laugh )
     
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  9. Roffey

    Roffey I'm As Free As A Bird Now

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    the guy was being an a-hole. he didn't like that she put on 2 pounds after my friends birthday
     
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  10. UFOtaku

    UFOtaku Wachu loorkin at?!

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    She shoulda dumped HIM. -_-

    Girls alot of times just look for someone sweet who will listen.
     
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  11. Yasuko

    Yasuko I beg your pudding?

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    How caring of you... most guys aren't like that!!

    Girls need comfort, support, and someone who will listen. Take them someplace they love to ease her mind, then talk to her until she feels better. Thats what I think ^__^
     
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    well personally if sum1 bought me sumthin 2 cheer me up i would be **** happy...but i guess i'm not ur typical chick...so ya jus being nice & all that crap would work..:p
     
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  13. darkmagiciangrl

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    just 2 frking pounds!!!! that a hole
     
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  14. Solo

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    Tell her to get over it! she shoulda kicked him in the damn nutz
     
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  15. Nephilim_X

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    You live in the same area as me, no?

    Perhaps I could...

    *cracks knuckles*

    show this chucklehead the error of his ways as a REAL birthday present to her. [/Godfather]
     
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  16. Basher

    Basher Mad Writing Skillz

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    whatever she is intrested in do that for a day even if you hate it. That always cheers me. Wait i have never been dumped only the dumpee. Don't get me wroung i was in a relationship for 2 & 1/2 years so kinda hard. Well my friends and i went out and did something together like a movie, shopping or concert
    Tell she is better off without him. She doesn't need a creep in her life when she has you that will get her to laugh
     
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  17. darkmagiciangrl

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    hells ya! send the guy to me & he'll get his a** kicked untill he's at LEAST 50 yrs. of age.
     
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  18. Yasuko

    Yasuko I beg your pudding?

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    Oh, you mean the guy was a jerk? I would have beaten him to a bloody pulp then. I hate when guys are like that. Thats what *she* should have done. You did the comforting part!
     
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  19. Zero Enna

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    What in the seven hell's 2 pouns isnt that much *starts to hunt him down*
    i cant say that i was ever dumped because i have NEVER be out on a date on the count of im not old enough unless 6th grade is old enough.
    besides one of my friends got dumped and it was a weight problem too she gaind 4 pounds right and the guy was aleast 165
    and with that four pounds she was only 107 and when she told me i told her to say to him "well aleast im not a sumo you friggen a$$hole
     
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  20. Bloodberry

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    umm..yeah...his friend is better, and life must now, somehow, continue.
    thread discontinued
     
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