Recreation Right...Wrong...you chose this one

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  1. headstrong

    headstrong New Member

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    Ok i dont know if this would go hear or not but im going to say it any way......
    Today at school i was in my World histroy class and minding my own when a guy i know (Even Willams) walks in and say's to me "whats up pangantor". Every one laughs even i do...i mean come on its funny, well the class ends and im walking to my next hour not doing a thing, and this other girl thats in my class says it well i dont even trun around.
    Then this rude guy starts saing it and then yells "HEY STUPIED PAGIN"......*twitch*.....What do i do i was going to flips them the bird but i didnt know if the teatcher was behind me or not and it like 4 more days of school left. Any way I'm im my 6ths hour and i dont know why but tears come to my eyes, i dont let stuff get to me but the anger in side me just is boiling over and i dont know what to do.
    I was going to after this class go and beat the day lights out of them, but hey what can i say its just me.But would i be ok in doing this part of me says yes the other is saying no but the yes voice is more then the no voice. Im not even claming to be a pagin im a free versa person i belive what i know and what i know is true.....wy cuse when youves died tree times and have a family and see werid stuff you know alot.
    But what im asking is should i A. tell them nicely not to say that again, B. tell them then tell a teacther, C. threaten them or D. yell at them at the top of my lungs and then beat the living day lights out of them and then going to there house and scare them?....Wich one do you think i should do?
     
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  2. Reisti Skalchaste

    Reisti Skalchaste New Member

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    Do nothing. The more you react, the more they'll bother you. The whole reason they do it is because they're amused by your reactions. If you get all pissed off, it's funny to them.

    Don't react, and they have nothing to laugh at. Ignore them and act like it doesn't bother you, and they'll get bored and stop.

    That's what I was told, but they never did stop for me. Just ignore them anyway and go about your business, they'll at least not be able to get any worse about it. Anyway, if they can't respect your beliefs, then they're not worth your time or effort.

    And certainly, any reaction you do give them will only give them more fuel to use against you.
     
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  3. Fudge_Monkeys

    Fudge_Monkeys www.boards.jp

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    sticks and stones can break your bones BUT WORDS CAN NEVER HURT!
    so.... i if you dont mind me asking. whats pagin
    like said before fights dont solve anything.
    It just leads to more fights
    and More names
    and less friends

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    Also i dont know where you live but i think school should be ending for you soon its better not to start anything a couple weeks before school ends or else that would put a name on you during the summer and next year people would remember you as that but if your act cool with people calling you that they will leave you alone AFTER a while
     
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  4. Reisti Skalchaste

    Reisti Skalchaste New Member

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  5. Fudge_Monkeys

    Fudge_Monkeys www.boards.jp

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    oOo in that case. if their making fun of ur religion...........................dont pay any mind to them still =)
     
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  6. Lance Leingod

    Lance Leingod The White Blade

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    Before I start cussing out the people that said that to you from this board, I have one question. Are you a paganus? If you aren't then I'd ignore them but if you are, I'd tell a teacher about it and let them talk to them. Someone who makes fun of a paganus is no friend in my book. I respect everyone I meet, even if they believe in a different religion, I respect them for what they are, nothing else.

    And I think I went off topic a little but I just needed to say that.
     
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  7. KaYasha

    KaYasha I'm Boelak Yrubron

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    Hey I wouldn't let it get to you. People are dumb, people still call me gay and stuff and I am open and don't take offense to it anymore. If you let the people get to you than they will just try harder to get under your skin, it is what gets those people off.
    Yeah, they are making fun of your ways, but just say something like Silly ____ -->whatever there religion is , shake your head ,and just walk on. People will find out that hey, that kid is no fun to pick on anymore. If it continues and gets to point where they are harming you, you can always report them to the office for making fun of your religion.
     
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  8. Yukiko

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    Hey if they want to say that about you... fine. Not going to be friends with them an time soon. Some people are jerks. Its part of life... so live with it and just ignore it. Or next time someone says it say something like "Whatever.... why dont you get a life." in a cold voice. if you start yelling and cussing and stuff... theyll just do it more. Besides if school is getting out soon you wont have to see them for the summer! Good luck.
     
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  9. headstrong

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    yea your all right its just ive had this bad wrap of being a pagin cuse i was going out with salem and she was a pagin and are group if full of that kind of stuff and i got marked with that when i was a .........christ lover......but then i saw what i realy wonted and its stuff i know is true, and ive died like 3 times and been near deth more then 100 ive seen stuff other would only dream of seeing.
    im crused with a gift as some say,im what you would call a free vers person, but any way i was the leader and i was marked my freshman year some girl who need to died( she called me a poser, and tried to run me over in front of my bro and sis school and cops could do nothing). wrote a note and said i was going to come to school and kill every one drinking there blood and write sick poems on the wall and kill people for my own god's, eating every ones flesh, well she named poeple that i knew that would help me in this.
    me being the leader and wontign my friends to be safe i toke the fall. i spent the night in jail and was kicked out of school for 3 weeks, every time i would walk in the hall every one would move out of my way. well im sofmore year i was kicked out for beating a football guys face in and licking the blood off his face..........i didnt know what i was doing at the time, the demon blood toke over.
    im just tired and sick of bing marked with this in not a bad person, i just wont the voices to stop. well i did snap in class and told the girl that if her and her friends didnt stop i would rip there tounge's out....i dont think that good?
     
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  10. Cherrygirl

    Cherrygirl Cherrylicious!

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    Sorry to say, but sometimes words can hurt more than anything physical. It really depends on what kind of person you are.

    If this is something that is really bugging you, you should go talk to a teacher. Yelling back at them or beating them up will only get you in trouble and before you know it, they'll be going to their parents and/or teachers telling them that YOU are the bully and that YOU are the one who started it and who is harassing them. Like other people have said, they're probably getting a kick out of your reactions so don't give them any more reason to taunt you (IE laughing at their comments or getting really mad). If they don't stop, you should definately go to a teacher or parent. Bashing someone's beliefs is not something to be taken lightly.
     
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  11. headstrong

    headstrong New Member

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    yea well they said is to my buddy boen and now she's pissed and were just going to scare them, and we have it were we wont get in truble, hears how it will go:
    me and boen will walk to each other and ill say " untoma"(hello) and she'll say "tumuas"(life blood), then will hug and she'll say " are we still going with the plan for next wensday?" me: " yes my sweet why would i miss slatering sheep as there sheperd truns a blind eye?" (insert evil fang smile hear) and then will say good by and will walk away.
    cant do a thing cuse were talking about a Role Play so ha ive beat them, all most did it to day cuse that big guy ran in to me nocking all my stuff overand every were i fell to the ground hurt my knee, all the y did was laugh......the demon came out for a moment hitis a wall put hole in it. yea there going to get it with this, but tell me what you think of it?
     
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  12. Lance Leingod

    Lance Leingod The White Blade

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    Your talking about demons, you know? Please make sense and don't use that word here in the debate thread. I treat everything I hear serious and when you talk about demons here, I'm thinking about it in a religion's sense, not anything in anime or manga.

    I'm not trying to be a mod but its just...unconfortable to me.
     
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  13. KaYasha

    KaYasha I'm Boelak Yrubron

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    Drinking others people blood or licking it is ver unsafe. Ever hear of that world wide epidmic.. um, whats the name... oh yeah.. AIDS. Plus there is a lot of other things that could come out of licking/drinking someone elses blood.
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    The best thing to do in the case of school, it just to get away from everyone and don't let them bother you. If you leave them alone they will end up leaving you alone. Just stay clear of people.
     
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  14. Bloodberry

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    this is asking for advice, not a debate. please consider whether whaty ou're posting belongs where you're putting it. unsure? throw it in recreation.
     
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  15. Fudge_Monkeys

    Fudge_Monkeys www.boards.jp

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    If your in high school or middle school and you do that one thing people will just laugh and walk on and that also will ruin the rest of ur school year
    Im sorry But your plan will never work.....if it does i will laugh
    Usally at my school people will be like wtf? and they will just walk on without a care and make fun of u for that
     
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  16. headstrong

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    ok i said the D word cuse thats what it is im not truning this in to that, and i didnt say anything about licking blood, and if i did id get them checked out befor i do that. like what i do with my bf befor i get in bed with them.
    and i didn't go with it cuse this morring i had a talk with a buddy of mine(im going to be posting it on the relig. form) but ive seen it, i dont need this teenage drama B.S. cuse the doc. said and i quote "britney if you dont cut back on stress and start living alittle more and not getting so mad and violent...dear your going to self destruct and die" yea i hate being me right about now. but yea ive gotten a wee bit wiser.


    always in darkness
    alex
     
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