Recreation Spill it...

My FIRST and acctual boyfriend was like 4 days. It happend this year and then I have not dated since. I have a feeling its b/c I am shy, and fat (i know I shouldnt say it but i am) I hope I will find someone, but oh well, I should hopefully.

 

actually mordeth. it's more like a convent... i was always planning on going to become a nun but my current boyfriend i've liked for eight years. we didn't go out til now because it wouldn't have meant very much back then. there's a very good chance we may get married.

 

you're planning on becoming a nun?

people actually PLAN on becoming a nun?

i thought it was just for people who had no skills and couldn't face the real world?!

 

THAT'S MEAN. besides, no taxes, free housing, free food sounds good. Not for me though, i'd rather... actually, i am not gonna tell you what i'd rather do Use your imagination

 

I'm not going to guess but your missing one important factor here
one three letter word. So i wouldn't be a nun.

 

I take it you mean sex then?
i dont really under stand the sigma around saying sex on the fourms tbh its not like its a blocked word, or that it should be blocked, sorry if this is abit too off topic.

 

now i remember!!!! i was dumped after four years because i wouldn't have *** with the guy. anyway i might lose my ********* to my current boyfriend.

 

LOL I think you can say, Virgin*ty on the forums. But just in case- notice the little asteric? (sp?)

 

heh... oh trust me i only did that for the yuong ones here. I mean some kids don't know what that is still. Plenty of highschool kids don't even knoe what S*x is.

 

I pity them.... The kids in this towns elementary schools know what it is! In my elementary school they teach about it in 4th grade! :glazed:

 

I dunno how to start this...

But I would say that about two or maybe three months ago, I thought I was in the perfect relationship. I was so far dating this guy for a year and a half and I was perfectly content. But it all ended when one of my friends (#1) told me that my other friend (#2) had a crush on my boyfriend. Of course, I didn't take it very likely. So I confronted #2. I severed all ties with her and called my boyfriend to tell him. I was never a brave girl, I always avoided confrontations but for this, I thought he was worth it. Well, it didn't go as I planned. When I called my boyfriend and told him what I had done, I expected praise but instead I got insulted. He called me "spoiled" and said that I shouldn't have done that. He said that "relationships may come and go but friends like that are forever". He was choosing her over me. So basically, I broke up with him the next day. That really wasn't surprising to anyone. Were have been on and off since we started going out. But believe me, I did love him with all my heart. I was only a confused girl and still am. Well, prom was coming up anyway...he was supposed to take me but instead took #1...that back stabbing b*tch!! I also happened to find out that the whole time we were going out, he had a crush on #1. I still cringe when I think about it. He only used me and toyed with my emotions. "I always had a crush on her." he said! That bastard!! :anger2: So I have no more friends.

And that's that.

 

well that sucks

its okay you didn't need him you don't need anybody. well..., actually you need some people, but not him, take comfort in knowing they'll all burn in Hel*

 

reign, i'm so sorry deary. i don't know if you are spoiled or not, but i hope things work out better for you. however about that so called ex "boyfriend" of yours should have told you about that crush of his. what do men find funny about toying with girls' hearts? let me at him and see who wins.

 

i think that people that have romances when their young will grow up not appriciating the other gender. If i ever get a girl i will be so nice to her and give her flowers and candy and not try to touch her or be unfaithful.

 

Thanks for your consolations. It makes me feel a little better. Believe it or not, ever since all that crap happened, I've been sort of a "morbid person." I dunno, the devastation I guess. I probably did it just so people will leave me alone. But I've gotten over it. I still hate them all with all of my heart!
Yeah, Kenshin! That's the way to go! My ex never did give ME flowers or candy!! All he cared about was his stupid car!! Lol, flowers and candy is the right way to go!
Oh yeah, I'm not spoiled...at least I don't think I am...? Hmm...I'll have a rain check on that question.

 

Reign. i am glad u are over him and didn't rush (i do). its normal to hate them after. my opinion men come and go so do friends. #1 and #2 are not a friend considering how they acted.
Just reminds me of my friend and I. We always competed against each other. But we never tried to steal each others bf of the weekend (i do mean weekend. we got bored easily so dumped them). We never tried to tell (or atleast kept it to ourself) if we liked the others bf. That is what was great about our friendship. We had fun to bad she went out with her old bf while i was dating my ex-bf. We don't talk as much anymore.
It is sad when good friends lose touch just depends on how. Sometimes it is not worth it over a guy.
As far as being spoiled goes...I am a princess
Im just glade that evrything got better
U do have friends at M2A
Kami u will have to wait in line let me after him

 

some guys are just plain a**holes

 

Sounds like you and your friend had a great relationship. B/F of the weekend?! ROTFLMAO! I never heard of that! I guess that people really DO get really bored! I know how it feels to lose touch with friends. Every grade of my life, I had new "best friends". Either they grew up to be preps who forgot about me, or we just don't talk anymore. Kind of depressing. But I will always remember what we did when we were friends and that thought makes me smile.

 

i had a gf for like a month and you guessed it i was a wuss and was too nervous to call her again
now i'm just a bachelor in denile
but i do have regrets:
1. i sure as hell wished i had called her more
2. dam*
3. dam*
4. dam*
:glazed: