Recreation why are people...

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  1. Bau

    Bau New Member

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    you know i get picked on a lot at school and really makes me angre and it makes me even more upset when i see other people get bullyed...
    what do you think???!!
     
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  2. c0ke

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    so stupid? so dumb? so retatrded? so f*cking cruel? they just are.

    anyways, as exiztone said, don't let those f*cks push you around, stand up for yourself, by no mean I'm saying to knock their teeth out or anything like that. That would get you into more trouble, but be like "Hey b*tch, why the f*ck you f*cking with me!" (Only a bit less extreme)
     
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  3. keence

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    I know that Im not very known but Ill reply any way

    I hate it when other people pick on people who are different It just really gets on my nerves and I try to stop it when I see It.
     
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  4. artemis836

    artemis836 Vampire Slayer

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    It makes me mad too. So mad that at night I dress up in black and prowl the city hunting down those who need to be brought to justice. Some call me a hero...

    ...but my foes know me as the "pain bringer"


    Seriously, I have allways had trouble with this too. Im still trying to get over it.
     
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  5. Chi

    Chi New Member

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    Try and ignore them and find some peopel you can hang with that like you for you. I was made fun of during my school years when I was younger people would use me because I was sooooooooo desprate to make friends. After a while I just got sick of it and no longer cared what peopel thought about me trust me things such as this will harden you maby even jade you. I can't tell you how important good friends and family are to have. If not for mine I don't konw where I'd be today. It's going to hurt like hell being bullied and taunted but if you can make it througth rember this. The kids that think they're hotshots now mignt not be so lucky ten years, the peopel who rely on looks, their looks will fade away and they will have nothing left unless they have a strong spirit. You have to be stronger than those losers yes it's hard I won't lie to you and say it was easy for me because it wasn't. And most of all stand up for yourself if they see you won't let them push you around then they mostlikely will leave you alone. That's all I have for now if you want more advice you can PM me.
     
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  6. Nephilim_X

    Nephilim_X New Member

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    Bah. From grade 4 on up and through a big chunk of high school I was made fun of too...

    Know what?

    Screw 'em.

    They're pathetic if they need to insult you. It's ridiculous, and they're just fools who won't go very far in life at all. Now, I know right now it certainly doesn't feel this way, but believe me, things will change. Now that Im in college Im actually kind of popular (somehow), and nobody makes fun of me. And that day will come for you too. :)

    Most of the time they're insecure and need to feel better than someone else. Who do they target? People who aren't part of the crowd but have fun anyway because its easier to target people like us.

    They're just overgrown children who know they're lacking and try to fill that hole by trying to make someone feel worse...


    Nuts to them. You don't have to take that crap.


    One kid in particular had a bad habit of trying to look better than me... he comes up to me in a store while I was home for a weekend...
    "So Scott, still in Chatham! What school ya in now?!"
    "Sheridan."
    "... Wheres that?"
    "Oakville."
    "Then why are you here, you liar?"
    "Im visiting for the weekend. Dont believe me? Here's my school id."
    "...........................oh........"

    What goes around comes around. Just remember: You're actually better than they are by a large degree.
     
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  7. Bloodberry

    Bloodberry Bloody Berry
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    agree with neph...was given crap from 2nd on up...i had friends that were boys and was/am wierd....lol
    remember, most of those ppl get what the deserve in life...hehe most of the ppl i know are in horrible shape...unfortunatly, this makes me happy. just try and ignore them...it sucks horribly...but, it is the best way for the most part...just try not to sink to their level...that makes you the same then...(duh)...heh
     
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  8. neoblacklady

    neoblacklady ~*Tpyo Godedses*~

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    I see it as......they are soo insecure of themselves....they have to take it out on others......seen it.... done it.
    They have no life and have to mess with others....Like so many times mentioned...just stand up for yourself....who knows...how you react to that person the next time might be the last you have to tell them off.:D
    Your better then them....dont even worry ......
    (if ya want ill scare 'em....ilike to scare people soul less muhahaha):p
     
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  9. Bau

    Bau New Member

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    thank you

    thanks...all of you that really makes me feel better to know all of your opinions.
    THANK YOU.
     
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  10. That guy!

    That guy! Expecting Father

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    I've seen this my whole life and I've fought to stop it... I have had a tonne of people make fun of me in the past, and why did they do this? I'm not sure because I didn't do anything to them except for be different from them. I guess that's what they are afraid of, and they respond to this by attacking whom they deem as different (LIKE HITLER DID!!!).

    Don't let people like that get you down, and don't attack them back in the same way. You are a good person Mog and that's why I'm glad that I don't view you or any of my other friends the way that others do, because they're missing out. For a while I almost got sucked into the world of trying to be cool, and the crowd I hung around wanted me to hurt others to make them laugh or whatever... I never could bring myself to it and I found that they never wanted to be friends with me anyways, and the when I made friends with someone I saw that was picked on he actually cared about me and we became best friends. I hate to see injustice and when I see people being picked on I bring it upon myself to yell out "LOVE AND PEACE!!!!!!!!", or tell that person to ignore the people picking on him/her.

    And the reason for them to hurt others is pretty much greed, greed of them trying to have a high number of friends... I know, it's immaturity on their part so pity them because it is quality in friends that matters... too bad it's the people that would be the best friends for them that they pick on.
     
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  11. Bau

    Bau New Member

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    thanks That guy! am glad that you are my best friend...
    and i argee. my english teacher said that he see this all the time and it makes him POed because they find out what buggs you and they kepp doing it untill the person snaps....and its true...
     
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  12. KaMeKaZi

    KaMeKaZi Insanity$%#

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    Nature of the Human beast..

    Through School it seemed to alway be the So Called Cool Elite crowd that made fun of other..

    and the best way to deal with it is to stand up and never back down.. because the minute you run is when they will never leave you along... If you can keep your cool long enough to ignore them out.. then they may become bored with you.

    KaMe
     
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  13. Odango_rose

    Odango_rose New Member

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    well me myself, I always stand up for the person, even if they don't do it for themself.

    why do you get bullied? I don't b/c I always stand up for myself, and I'm very self confident. I hate bullys they suck a big one. they piss me of more than most things.:mad:
     
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  14. Hikaru

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    Personally, I've never experienced being bullied (I was in a Christian school up to now), but I know how it can be like, becuase I've heard accounts from friends or from, well, media or books.

    I just would like to give a few words of encouragement to those of you who have thes troubles. Bullies think that they are cool by being violent or mean, like those people in the movies, but when we all look closer, it's the good guy that always comes out on top! You, too, will be the winner! Just give the movie some time to go on. :D Good luck guys!
     
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  15. oeneo-san

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    [snip]Cloud.[/snip]
     
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  16. ~ Zack ~

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    I just have to say, I love it how every suggestion makes it seem like every case is so easy, especially the whole "stand up for yourself" bull... I just find that kind funny, heh. ^_^
     
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  17. Nephilim_X

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    It's not easy.

    I remember one time, when I was in grade 5, I tried to stand up for myself, and got circle beat. And when I came in crying, the teacher just said "Jesus didn't cry when they crucified him!"

    But the difference here is that Mog will have back-up, and he's older than a fifth grader.
     
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  18. KaMeKaZi

    KaMeKaZi Insanity$%#

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    Yeah i forgot to mention.. Never stand up for yourself.. when your totaly alone and outnumbered..

    if the odds are equal.. stand up.. and if you have good friends.. they have to stand up with you..

    But it does work.. Im a prime example.. and i also had friends who watched my back like a hawk when needed..

    KaMe
     
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  19. ~ Zack ~

    ~ Zack ~ Guest

    Eh, guess it seems like I need friends, then.
     
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