Recreation In need of help

Well, um, I just wanted to say its been a hard month for me, and well, um, I was wondering if anyone out there knew any way I chould get help like a number or like you thoughts and ways you feel better. Its just well, my bf just left me and, my family may be spliting apart. I dont know what to do, so I am turning to my friends and I hope this isnt a post I shouldnt have made. I have been trying not to be so sad and well, its like me keeping it all inside and I cant anymore. I just feel like breaking down and crying. That is why I left for a bit and then that is why I was thinking of leaving this place forever......I just feel so sad. The mods can delete this if they want it might be spam. I would say its a cry for help from a girl who is lost in depression and pain.

 

I know what you mean since I was a little depressed before also and let me just tell that its not the end of the world. This is just a tiny part of your life on which you will look back and laugh. You can't control your parent's lives so don't even try. And if your b/f left you than thats his loss if he doesn't understand how great and wonderful you are. If you want someone to call who is experenced in this kind of stuff call your local support group like Kids Help Phone they might be able to cheer you up.

This part of your life is so freaken insignificant and just remember that lifes one big huge joke. The way the Earth works kinda shows irony at its best. So don't worry about everything in your life, it will get better.

And if all that doesn't help then go out and by a tub of ice cream

 

Hang in there Quistis!! as far as going for help the school i go to as a student run group in it and i've become very close to a couple of the ppl in that group and well just having someone to talk to that is gooing throu or has went through the same thing as me makes me feel better and i'm sorry that your boyfriend left you i know that's not cool and u seem to be a really cool nice person and if he didn't see that that his lost but being single is not that bad. I'm single and i'm happy because of being able to stuff here at m2a and i have swim team. In my expeirence its best to keep yourself busy and it may seem that your family is splitting apart but sometimes what things seem tobe may not entirely be the case. Try talking with your family and discuss how its making all of you feel. and if ur not big on talking to them face to face try leaving a note or something.

 

hey Quisty...I cant say that I understand what your going through...because to tell you the truth...I've never been through what you have. If you feel bad because your bf is gone...you should be feeling bad for him...because hes the one missing out
as for numbers to call...try calling a teen help line or something like that..I've heard they really help alot as for you keeping things in...just talk to me on MSN or something and let it all out or even just write it down on a peice of paper...I hope I have helped you at least a lil bit and if I havn't...then Im sorry I couldn't help you

 

Go to COR. It will fix almost everything for you.. and you're the type of person that it would help the most because you're energetic and cool to be around.

 

Quisty, What can I say? Not much that I haven't already. I offer you my deepest sympathies in this reguard. Anyone who knows me knows that I've never had luck in the 'love' category. Anyhow you look at it. When it comes to your Family falling apart... *sigh* I don't know what to say. Hang in there, be the best you that you can be and somehow things will work out.

-UK

 

I'm gonna start by hitting you with an old cliché: 'Tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
Don't dwell on things that get you down. No good will come of it. You'll just end up wallowing in sadness for who knows how long and one day realizing that whatever problems you're having don't amount to a hill of beans in this crazy world.
I'd like to think I did a good job of hiding this, but I recently went through a bout with depression myself. Given my total lack of intelligence on these things, I did all the worst things and got plastered, smashed myself up a few times and nearly cost myself a few friends. Not a good idea. Whatever you do, and this is the voice of experience here, don't let anything keep you down for too long. What's done is done.
I won't pretend to know you well enough to give you any real advice on the matter, but although we have known each other only a very short time, I consider you a friend and am therefore concerned for you. I might sound like an insensitive prick for saying so, but if you're family's falling apart, it will probably work out for the best anyway. I don't know the circumstances here, but in most cases it's probably not a good idea for a family to stay together and for everyone to end up hating each other over it.
I'm probably just full of **** anyway, so don't let me get to you.

 

OMG WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO ME!!??

I just lost a friend. My good friend told me he never wants to see me ever agian, and that he is better off without me :sad: :sad:

Why does this happen? sigh........makes me think........I feel God hates me. I just wish I had a friend to hug right now in real life b/c I am just........alone :sad:

*goes to a corner*

 

God doesn't hate you... He has me for that!

I'm just kidding. But seriously, God doesn't hate you. I don't have any explanation for this stuff, but surely you can get through it. I lost four close people to various cancers in a little more than a year. It hurt, but I got through it. You'll be fine.

*hugs Quisty*

Hope you feel better...

 

"And if you call
I will answer
And if you fall
I'll pick you up
And if you court
This disaster
I'll point you home
I'll point you home"
-Barenaked Ladies, Call & Answer-

I'm sure that quote's true for everyone here. If you just need someone to talk to, you know we're all friends here.

 

Everything is ok in the end. And if things aren't ok, its not the end.

 

This may be my goodbye from m2a for a while..........

You see my dad is taking me to a hospital to get new medication and to try anfd make me happy. I will be in London, Ontario and in a room by myself. They are gonna give me new pills and stuff to make me happy. I wont be on m2a for a while myby a month or so...I also think they are taking me out of school this year b/c I cant handle it anymore. So I wont able to get out of my house for a while. If you know me well you should kjnow my parents are verbaly abusive.

Goodbye m2a, I hope we I will be back.

 

Bye, Quistis. I'm going to miss you a lot. But I am glad that you are going to be getting help, and I really hope that things improve for you family-wise as well. Hopefully you will be able to deal with things and get everything to turn out right for you.

Remember that you'll always have friends here.

 

No! Don't leave. I will miss you so much. huggles.

 

Ok..................something weird happend. They took me to the hospital but they didnt make me stay there. Altho, my mom is not in my house for tonight. Me and her dont get along. I need time away from her, and the family might be spliting apart. My mom keeps hurting me and I dont think I am gonna go to school anymore. I am ok right now but I am confused. It seems like I should stay away from my mom untill she gets help. When I went to the hospital me and my dad relized its not me who needs to go into the hospital its her.

 

I AM HAVING A GOOD DAY!!!

Finally I am having a good day. My mom came back home and she is gonna start some new medication. I found a 20$ blockbuster card, and I have so many nice friends (this including m2a)


*puts on Star Wars techno*

 

Yay you're happy again. *does the happy dance* I'm glad you're feeling better, it makes me happy also. *huggles*

 

YAAAAAAAAAY!!
I haven't been here that long but Quistis I knew you were a happy go lucky go lucky person from the start. So stay on that path Jedi and remember this too shall pass unless you let it get carved into your personality from all this sorrow then you'll regret it for a long time to come, and who wants that. Ohh and look at everything around you (espiacially colors) and learn to appriciate EVERYTHING you have. That's how I pulled out of my last crisis.

-DD
P.S. Espiacially Blue it's really calming and beautiful.