Recreation In need of help

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Quistis, Oct 8, 2003.

  1. Athena

    Athena Wisdom comes with Sadness

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    YAY! I'm so glad that things are going your way! You deserve it! ^_^ i'd give you a hug but i feel like i shouldn't since i don't know you well so i'll just say how happy i am for you again. *_*
     
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  2. Quistis

    Quistis New Member

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    just when you smile and feel good the depression comes back to you. I have lost so many friends this week b/c I am never happy anymore. Why cant I be happy? I feel I am a mistake to this world. I feel so lost. I just wish I chould smile. I keep losing ppl all the time. I think I am the problem. I dont know wwhat to do anymore and iv been hiding it. Bullies have thrtened to ruin my life and they have hurt my with words and by throwing plastic at me. Why doesnt anyone love me? Why does this happen? I dont except an answer.........I cant hide this anymore.
     
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  3. Basher

    Basher Mad Writing Skillz

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    Quisty it is a normal thing but don't do anything drastic.

    You could think of a wonderful thought. DAMN disney for coming up with that.

    What I do is ahh I don't know. I should be totally stressing right now because my world is falling apart so to speak. But I am not. If anything helps me is writing. Take up an activity like writing or drawing. You can write all your thoughts down. Since you warned me in the past and now I finally listened to a good friend like you. You can PM me and I will be there to help as much as I can.

    I wonder where this came from or did I make it up?

    If you fall, I will be there to help you up.
    If you stumble, I will catch you.
    If you cry, I will be the shoulder for you to cry on.
    If you forget me, I will always be here when you remember me.
    If you feel alone, I will always reach out to you.
    If you are in pain, I will try and make it go away. I will do anything to stay a friend to you. Just do me one thing never go away. :D
     
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  4. Fuuma

    Fuuma New Member

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    I feel your pain Quisty, this month has been crazy for me too.
    Bullys are mean, I don't think anybody has a right to pick on anyone else, and if they do...just try to ignore them.

    (Except whenever I'm made fun of I mumble to myself and blush....not a very good tactic ~_~; )

    ....this is a very serious topic...so this is my rare, mostly serious post :D..Lucky Lucky :D .....try to feel better...
     
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  5. femme_fatale

    femme_fatale New Member

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    Those bullies suck. :(

    Quist, as long as you think you're great, that's all that matters. Don't worry about what other people say to you. You should be confident in yourself -- I mean, you're funny, you're nice, you're intelligent, so don't let them make you think otherwise! They have no right to make you feel upset.

    Remember, "sol lucet omnibus"... "The sun shines for everyone"! :) Try to smile, and if you need help again, don't hesitate to talk to me and the other M2A members.
     
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  6. Quistis

    Quistis New Member

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    First of all I would like to point out my new avatar :p


    <------ This is how I feel now. Cool, wonderful and relaxed:D

    I finally had a good day yesterday. One of the best days this year. I am a lot more happy now and more relaxed. I am so greatful all of you are so kind to help me *HUGGLES* I am feeling better now that I had such a good day yesterday. I have more hope in me and I am a bit stronger.

    I will get those bullies oneway or another. Somehow I will and it will be good >: )
     
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  7. Fuuma

    Fuuma New Member

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    I need help now..

    Life is sucking for me,
    this month of October has been the most Funked up month for me.
    This girl I like hates me now. ~_~
    A bunch of guys obsessed with her now hate me too.
    ~_~; I get bullied a lot...(hard to ignore when your getting hit)
    Of course, I still have pleanty of friends..
    Ive screwed myself here it seems.....

    .....on a more positive note...
    I beat Happy Pill!!!!!1 (the game in my signature...)

    *crys*
    ..gotta keep smiling..
     
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  8. Lady Shadow-san

    Lady Shadow-san New Member

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    So?
    Somebody threw some Skoal at me in the hall the other day. What's wrose? Plastic or chewing tabacco?

    You need to learn not to run from people.
    I don't.

    Someone said to me the other day, "You think you're better than me!"
    I reply with, "You know what, you stupid *****?" (She's honestly really rude to me and I dont' even know her name...) "I don't care. You know what? I don't think I'm better than you, I KNOW I'm better than you."

    As for nobody loving you, why don't you look at the people who already appriciate you?
     
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  9. Basher

    Basher Mad Writing Skillz

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    Childern childern. When will you learn complaining will get you no where? If life is bad DO something about. Your life is what you make it to be.

    We can sit here and exchange crummy days and you would never compare to mine. Have you ever lived nearily two years in a hell hole? And because you loved someone so deepily you would never leave. Getting threatened everyday if you were to try and back out you would lose that person forever. And then it gets worse when you think you have left this situation behind. I think not. That is all I will say on that matter.

    The bullies are there because YOU let them be there. Stand up to them. Come on say no more. Get the attuide going that we all got. What is the worse can they do? Oh hit you. Bruises will go away but the emtional damage will take years to heal. I say let them throw the first punch and the take it from there.

    Talk big another thing bullies hate.

    Use comebacks.

    Bully them.

    This is what I used to say.

    "Atleast I can lose weight, you will still be ugly."

    "I worship the ground that awaits your corpse."

    "If I had a face like yours I would sue my parents Liable."

    and I do have more. :D

    Someone starts in on you. Use this. Give them a disgusted look. "I hate to tell you this but your barking up the wrong tree. Dogs like you should be put down." Need to say it all bad and all.

    For girls when someone calls you a ***** say "so" or "your point is." It makes people mad.

    A bully is there because you let them be there. Bullies will stop once you stand up to them. Unless they are like me but no one is.

    B19
    Former Bully
     
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  10. That guy!

    That guy! Expecting Father

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    Life could be a lot worse.. sure there are some really craptastic times that totally depress you. But, just ignore "bullies" and realize that you can't let them affect your goals in life.. they aren't worth it.


    Here's a picture to meditate on, try living their lives:
     

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  11. Quistis

    Quistis New Member

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    Well, I am happy now. I have had the single most wonderful week of my life EVER! I also took time off school to think and get things together in my life. I doing really good now. I am smiling and laughing. so um YAY! :D
     
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  12. Novus

    Novus Gone

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    To quote a little Shakespeare, "Nothing can be ill if she be well".
    Good to know you're feeling better.
    Seriously, though, for everyone out there getting pushed around, I agree 100% with what Basher19 said. I got pushed around a lot in school until I realized that if I pushed back I could move mountains. Most people won't bother you if you don't let them. But then there's the occasional jackass who won't shut up, but you don't have to put up with many of them anyway.
     
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  13. Lady Shadow-san

    Lady Shadow-san New Member

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    You know that's your MOM'S BUSINESS, NOT YOURS. If somebody ever told ANYONE about my medical history I'd be really pissed off. That's her information that she can give out as she pleases, not you. MEDICAL HISTORY IS SUPPOSED TO BE PRIVATE AND CONFIDENTIAL. :anger2:
     
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  14. Quistis

    Quistis New Member

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    Lady Sahdow I am just saying what is happening to me I didnt say why she is or what she is taking jesus clam down I didnt give any info I just said she is gonna take some so what it chould mean she is taking blood tylenol
     
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