Men really tick me off sometimes!!!!!!! mostly because in my life something like that happened to someone really close to me Chupito except the guy ran off, then came back later and tried to take the child away by bringing her and her family to court But be sure to support her! and maybe even offer to help her out every once in a while by baby sitting or something Although I'm really happy that this person who is close to me didn't have an abortion, because babies are so wonderful and this particular child it really makes me sad to know that this circumstance could have forced the girl to have an abortion, but she kept the child and loved her But sex is something that is beautiful and really powerful I believe. And it's kind of like the ring in Lord of the Rings because it is really tempting, and some people have trouble resisting. But to hold everything in and give this gift to the one person who you promise your life to makes this gift so much more powerful and good methinks. I guess you have to be selfish with somethings, especially of this magnitude ><
I only post here to completely agree with That Guy! (That one! Right over there!) because I share a lot of his views and the same thing happened to my auntie. She's only 21, but she's got the support of her entire family. And the fact that Francis (her son) is too adorable not to say no to. Sex is transcending (is that a positive word? i mean it to be) only if you make it love. Well, that's what I think...ja na!
well cuzzes I'm a virgin, and well thats all I have to say, I mean I haven't thought it was a really big deal or not. my 2 best friends are NOT virgins, but I haven't ever felt the urge.
`drunkk mordeth says hi drunk mordeth saw his best friends girlfiends boobies today she showed me her boobies to cheer me up.. I think I Love thatgirl tje were nice drunken mordeth says bye
Drunk Kame Says.. I seen lots of hot chix.. even pinched someone bum.. but she had a BF.. man what a night KaMe
This is the special thing about getting married and have a nice husband.. In that way, yu make him feel special that he was the one who took your virginaty from you.. I dont know id the girls over here agree with me, even the boy.. But this is the way I planed it to be..=)
UH-huh. I understand that Virginity can be special, and giving it to someone is kinda special too... But being proud of being a virgin is like being proud of being hungry. You're depriving yourself of a beautiful experience for the sake of what? To say "Yay, I'm not getting sex!"? it's not cool, it's not fun, and theres no f*cking point. I'm not a virgin, I'm proud to share intimate experiences with someone I love, and thats far superior to staving off your urges for some misguided sense of nobility. This boards 2nd non-virgin, steps up.
Hello all you mary's. I am proud to say, i am NOT a virgin! virginity is not a bloody 'gift'. At the age of fifteen, i was taught by the best of the perverts that you don't 'lose' your virginity, you gain 'non virginity'. That bogan is now stuck with his overfiend, and bum buddies, while ihave a loving man who shows me how love and sex SHOULD be!
Then, I'll be the fourth. Like I said, it was an EXPERIENCE. She loves me, and I love her with all my heart. 'Sides, I plan on marrying her.
I never said i was proud of being a virgin. and i dont plan on saving myself for when i get married. Im not going to sleep with a ***** just to say i did it. but there is no real point in saving myself.. Cause frankly it will drive you insane after a while i think.. KaME
Ganbatte Mordeth! But no targetting your best friend's GF no matter how nice her boobies are. It's against the guy's code.
yup that guy! i`m supporting her that kid it`s like my own! she just told me that is a baby girl!!!!!! i wanna have a girl too! I agree with kame, i`m waiting for someone who i like and likes me, not going to do something like that just to say i did! zanza-chan some years ago, i though the same thing and i still do, but now i`m waiting for the right person, the right person will be my husband, if i marry him i b/c i love him and he loves me... i don`t need to be married, just loving him is enough some ppl asked why haven`t i had sex(lol)! i think we should have sex the right time, this means, you should have stability in your life WE CAN`T do things just because you want! imagine if the guy droped you, what would you do? huh? okay, you tell your parents, they don`t want you in home anymore! now you have to take care of the baby, right? how i ask you? oh i get a job and work as waitress/waiter for the rest of my life. <b>do you remember that thread where we talked about this, babys who are not loved by their family</b>, so this kid will grow up being stereotyped by everyone(you liking or not, there are still some ppl who think it`s wrong)without a family to care about him. he will feel as if he was the result of the worst thing you did in your whole life. believe me, i grow up thinking i was the worst thing that happend to my mom think about it, and give me a answer worst of the much amount of words i typed!
Jebus Legato, open your mind just a tiny bit. I know you are enlightened and freed from the centuries of religious oppression imposed on mankind for the sake of control and all that, but there are actually people out there who abstain from sex for religious reasons. Would you say something like that to someone who said said he was proud of being a vegetarian? Meat tases good and all, but if he chooses not to for health reasons or feels a moral obligation not to eat meat, would you mock him? Actually somehow I think you might.. that's beside the point though. A lot pf people here are virgins because they are religious and feel it is the right thing to do, and are proud of their ability to resist partaking (at least until marriage) of something that is indeed pleasurable and hard to resist, as bacon is for a certain vegetarian I know. Just open your mind a crack to other beliefs. I'm not saying you should jump on the bandwagon with the masses and their opiate, but respect them for their heartfelt beliefs.
Ok, I have to say something sooner or later...so here it is...I'm not a virgin anymore. I'm not really proud of it, 'coz our country is a little conservative, and the virginity issue is a big thing here. But, yes....I even got pregnant! But I never got married 'coz my boyfriend is big jackass and a liar, so I chose not to. So that's that...period!
I'm kinda with Legato on this one I don't see the point of depriving yourself either. But I'm not a very moral person and think most of the phoney britany spears morals people cling to are a load crap. Excessiveness and decadence. Have your jollies while your still on this planet. Don't knock it til you try it. You don't know what your missing. I'm also a neo nazi and a big fat racist. Just kidding. I'm serious about the other stuff though.
I know I don't feel like I am depriving myself.... I can look for other stuff besides having sex.. I go on religous reasons....and thats why I dont go out and have sex...I don't feel like im missing anything.... and im keeping away from horrid risks such as pregnancy, some nasty freaking disease that i know i dont want..(not most people these days don't exactly tell you that they have a s.t.d.)....and unhurt feelings... so its all gravy to me.
Brittney Spears, posterchild of morality? Ha! that'll be the day... She's fake, I don't listen to her, I don't care what she does, I have my own life and I live it the way I want to. The real point here is just an echo of MOs point. Maybe I don't know what it feels like to have sex... fine by me, what you don't know, you don' t miss/get depressed over not having/obsess over/etc... I'm not depriving myself. -UK ~~~~~~~~~~~~ most people I know who've 'done it' in real life are worried about a whole lot more than I am.
"...I don't feel like im missing anything.... " Yeah, but don't you have that little voice in the back of your head saying that you could be missing out on something great? "Brittney Spears, posterchild of morality? Ha! that'll be the day... " hence the use of the word phoney
i know i dont listen to her...you can tell she looks fake...Brittney Spears...what a load of horse!!! i agree with UrashimaKeitaro.... "what you don't know, you don' t miss/get depressed over not having/obsess over/etc..." and nope that voice is saying a great time will screw me over... im just being cautious.. i got too much to look forward to get messed up by a kid or some disease to ruin my future career. im kool with where i am..... :catgirl: purrrrr
