Recreation What do guys and girls actually look for?

Loli havent really said my opinon.

Ok. I do afmit the first thing that catches my eye immediatly is looks. Cant help it. I like lanky guys and i dig the long hair look because im like into llike weird traveling kind of ppl and think of journeys n stuff. Alll guys should long hair (period).

So for most ppl looks are the first thing they notice, but if the person is a jerk and is stupid i can easily look past how handsome they are and see the ugly jerk inside. But im not extremly shallow at all really. A guy thats funny and considerate no matter there looks always attractract. I also like a guy i dont have to explain simple stuff to, it annoys me. Im short tempered at times and have totall patience in others. I like ppl that are smart but its not a neccesaty. As long as there kind, try hard and mean well i can overlook everything.

if any of you uderstand that congrats. Overall. I can easily over look beauty of any kind. I like someone with perspective. I want someone i can help in someway by just being there. I do look at personality ( believe it, its true ), and i dont care about money. I think it would be cool if i left home with 50 bucks and travelled the road on foot with some friends. I love guys with long hair. i really do.
--sheeta * violators will be towed *

 

First of all I would like to say "Thank You" to Ashika for recognizing my work. Secondly, a round of applause to Neph. If I didn't say it I knew he would have. Now, on to what I want to say. Its true, girls do look for maturity. But it's WHICH girls look for maturity. Not all do I know that. Also, for the pushover statement, completely true. Guys, be nice to girls but not too nice. Not only do you LOOK like a pushover but the believe they can use you for whatever they want. You can be nice, but be firm and determine when to use it. The term "Nice guys finish last" is only half true. I say half cause some guys can use it to their advantage real well. Others just get shoved around and used. As for the lies and truth statement, I agree with it on some levels.
Girls CAN tell when you're not being real with them. She doesn want the real you. They may not want to see all of it at once, but they do want to see it. If you dont know what this means, think of it as bait. Let them see a little of you, then stop. Then a little more and stop. I've said mine.

-User formerly known as KenshinX_Himura