Recreation Tips on getting a gf?

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  1. Jam Chii

    Jam Chii New Member

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    I feel so weird about asking this...but still I got to. There's this really cute girl at my school, and I wanna ask her out to the movies or something, but I really know how to introduce myself, and start a conversation...I mean, I could just walk up and say, "Hi, Uhhhh...what's your name" Then ask a few questions abut her day and such, then I'm stuck. If I was talking to a friend, I could start a huge conversation about anime, games, drawings, and whatnot, or just argue with them about useless stuff....So, back to the point, Uhhh....can anyone like....sorta....help me?
     
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  2. Ark

    Ark Praise Judas!

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    ok...

    First of all, find out her name. Then, go ask her if she wants to go out.

    The worst she can do is say no, or that she has a boyfriend already.

    Seriously, it's not hard. You just have to get up the courage to do it, and then do it. There's no 'technique' or 'tricks' that will guarentee you'll get a date, and the harder you try, the more humiliating it will be if you are rejected. Go up, ask, and be done with it one way or another.

    - Ark
     
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  3. Dr. Nick Rivera

    Dr. Nick Rivera New Member

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    OK, first, you follow her around, making sure to stare so much that she feels uncomfortable. Then, we she tries to run away, you give chase, and then find a way to disappear so that when she turns around, you're not there. But when she turns back, you'll be right there, like in horror movies. And then you ask her out. I swear to any of the manmade gods most people believe in this will, in fact, work. And trust me, you can't be sued for sexual harrassment.
     
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  4. UFOtaku

    UFOtaku Wachu loorkin at?!

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    *laughs*
    Well... how about a girl's point of view?
    Ark has a point, but if you do it right, you won't need to be rejected.
    Dr Nick is just scary. o.o

    First find out IF she has a boyfriend. Find out something she likes, and MOST IMPORTANTLY- don't be nervous. You tend to do really stupid things around people you like. >.< You could go right up to her and talk, then get to the subject of movies. But get to know her before you ask. If there's one thing girl usually don't like, it's being randomly asked out by people they don't know.

    A guy I don't know asked me to prom and told me that he'd been watching me.

    That would be a fine example of the WRONG way.

    Now, if he had gotten to KNOW me, and been my friend, I'd have said yes when he asked.
     
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  5. Nephilim_X

    Nephilim_X New Member

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  6. Phalanx

    Phalanx Long Live M2A!

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    Gad, thats a nice thought *laughs*.

    This is almost incredable timing you guys, for you see, tomarrow I will be asking this girl from my music class out. Neph, that page is a chock full of vital, previously unknown information and many thanks goes to you for it. Unfortunatly, I'm aiming pretty high so the moment will have to go without a speck of incident. I'll be back tomarrow with what I did wrong (hey, I don't want to jinks myself here :anime: ).

    One thing I do know, pay careful attention to grooming and body language. I have a my favorite, prestine, color-coordinated set of wrinkle-free and unstained clothes ready for tomarrow's tour of duty. All facial hair is trimmed and in-line. The shower will be frosty and ready (Gah!) and the moose will be at my side. True, seems like a bit much, but we'll see how it goes. Send luck of any positive form this-a way

    Toodles for now!
     
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  7. Jam Chii

    Jam Chii New Member

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    Uhhh....I have another question....let's say, the girl is older than me...that is gonna effect everything, so how should I counter this?
     
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  8. seraphinx

    seraphinx Oy, Artista!

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    Just how much older is she? 1-2 years isn't much. But if you're really young and she's really old, she might be flattered that she attracted such a young guy. Some older girls wouldn't mind a younger guy if they're fed up with guys their age or older, or if they simply don't care about age. Then again, some girls dislike younger guys just cuz of their age. Also, older girls tend to be more likely to have boyfriends. But I say, if you can show her that you're a great guy, she probably won't care about age.
     
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  9. Nephilim_X

    Nephilim_X New Member

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    Yeah, but odds are this is a high school kid we're dealing with here. Over 2 years might be asking a bit much (why would a 19 year old date a 15 year old?)
     
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  10. SaberJ2X

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    depends on the 15 y/o neph.... me and my gfriend have about 2 1/2 years of diferrence 15/18 right now...
    and she is way more mature than most 18 19 y/o girls I know
     
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  11. Mordeth

    Mordeth Mordeth Vult!

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    maybe you and everyone you know is really mature? :)


    a sure fire tip for getting a gf.. don't post threads like these
     
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  12. SaberJ2X

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    LOL! a rude, but certain tip
     
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  13. chiquitabanana

    chiquitabanana finally legal

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    If you were younger than her, i mean it looks kind of like your desperate. I'd say just make sure shes in your league and that you have something in common
     
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  14. Nephilim_X

    Nephilim_X New Member

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    And the romance you two share is hardly typical. :p
     
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  15. DrunkLeprachaun

    DrunkLeprachaun Tetsu Oushi

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    It's easy. All you do is go up to her and start gyrating your crotch. Then, if you feel like it, lick your fingers and masage your nipples. She'll be putty dude, putty. If that doesn't work(which it will anyway), just ask her if she likes her eggs fertalised in the morning.
     
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  16. Nephilim_X

    Nephilim_X New Member

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    Nah nah, it's all about doing the Electric Slide.
     
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  17. Meaikoh

    Meaikoh See you later, Moderator

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    Well, I find that if you want the Twin Brothers' GF, it's a lot of fun to just walk around the Tomb of an Ancient King sometimes. Eventually you'll fight them and then they'll join you.

    You could solve some puzzles, or go into fiery caves, or sometimes they'll just up and GIVE you a GF. Most GFs, in order to acquire them, you will have to beat with your large gunblade.

    :) I couldn't help myself.
     
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  18. Jam Chii

    Jam Chii New Member

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    Lol. I figured someone would post something like that.
     
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  19. Meaikoh

    Meaikoh See you later, Moderator

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    I'm just glad that it got to be me ;).

    Okay, so let's be serious a moment.

    If you really want a girlfriend, all you have to do is be persistant. Get to know her, and then just up and ask her! Oh and...the Electric Slide does help.
     
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  20. Jam Chii

    Jam Chii New Member

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    Electric slide..?
     
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